I’m a Woman, and I Don’t Like Big Dicks

I just want to correct the generalization that all women want/like big dicks. This is false. I’m a woman, and my general preferred penis size is in the “average” range: about 5-7 inches.

I’ve had sex with literally more men than I can count, ranging from literally too small to enter my vagina to nearly a whole foot long. Miraculously, I’m still as tight as I was the day I lost my virginity (I have witnesses to confirm this). I really don’t need big things in my vagina. I have a small vagina, and it doesn’t take a lot of depth or width to hit all my sweet spots and still have some excess.

And yes, I can “take it”; I just don’t need it or like it in and of itself.

Ultimately, how much I enjoy sex has always depended on how strong my connection with the person is, and how deep our intimacy runs. My body follows my mind in this way, something I believe most women (and a great deal of men, too) share in common. Dry humping someone I love feels better than a porno-fuck from some guy I barely know. Dick size doesn’t matter at all for me in an emotionally based sexual relationship.

But if I’m buying a dildo, or if I were looking for casual sex for some reason, I don’t want anything longer than a 7-incher or thicker than a toddler’s ankle.

One last thing: The only women I’ve met IRL who stress that a man must have a “big dick” also had reputations for being… “like throwing a hot dog down a tunnel”. Just sayin’.

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